It must be nice...

[phoenixsong]

It must be nice for children born in Pagan families because you all seem so understanding of well, lots of things, but especially religion, obviously. (I know this is off topicish, since i'm not actually from a Pagan family, but, I gotta say this) I don't talk to my parents much, (It's not that we fight, we're just kind of separate), and I guess I'm just kind of in a dream world, thinking, if we were such a thing everything would be different.

Actuallly maybe I should delete this

[Yvonne Belisle]

No you shouldn't delete this. I think a lot of us have gone threw that. I know that there are people on this board that come from abusive homes and other assorted backgrounds. I think in part that is what has made some of us better parents. Many of us also listen to the younger members of this board for ideas on how to deal with our own children and foster a more close bond. We may not be able to figure out how to get your parents to accept your religious choice but perhaps if you stick with this thread some ideas for gaining that closeness in other areas may be found or you may find a second mom or dad amungst the posters here. I do ask that if you do that be carefull in your choices. Welcome to the family room here at Mystic I think we need your imput.

[Lavender]

When I look at my son, I try to remember how I felt as a child. I try to think of things from his perspective as well. It's not easy. Sometimes "just because I said so!" gets used. :rolleyes: As Yvonne said, the young people on this board are great. For myself, I listen to what you say & think how that translate for my child.

BTW, Yvonne makes a great online mom! :p

[phoenixsong]

Thanks.
(by the way, WildChild, nice avatar, lol)

[Lavender]

Originally posted by phoenixsong
Thanks.
(by the way, WildChild, nice avatar, lol)

Thanks! I was going to wear this until halloween but I can't remember where I left my old avatar! :p

[Laiste]

Welcome and Merry Meet Phoenixsong!! I agree with both Yvonne and Wildchild! You will find some good parental role models here on this board. As we parents have found some good younger role models. As far as Pagan parents being so understanding...well, I don't know. I think we are learning and growing along with our children just as other parents who have different beliefs. Everyone has a different parenting style and who's to say which ones are the "right" ones. I believe that as long as you love, nuture, respect and try to understand your child you are heading in the right direction.

[Yvonne Belisle]

Thank you for that wonderful compliment. If you look toward the Pennsylvania area of the states you may see a red glow that's me blushing.

[StormChaser]

I wasn't as lucky to have great parents though I was raised pagan. My ex-almost-stepfather.. was to say the least.. a giant terd. hehe

But my mom, and the rest of my pagan family.. they have been the most wonderful, loving, supportive, helpful people I have ever known. My best friend *of 8 years this past mabon* is also wiccan. It's helped our relationship having someone of the same faith to talk to and relax about who we really are inside and out with.

I can't WAIT to have my own family *though I am!!* that I can share my love with.. and give back that support etc that I have recieved. I don't fear the world I will be introducing them to, because i know the community that I will introduce my young ones too is sooooo great, and really one of the safest out there.

I love pagan gatherings like Free Spirit because you see, 3 year olds, running around buttnekkid, just racing in the field, all the adults are watching.. they have wristbands on, and the parents arent usually too far behind.. but they may be out of site.... and thats okay.. because everyone is looking out for that little bundle of laughter.

So to all you great pagan parents.. I salute you. I am SOOO happy we have them. For the longest time much of the community seemed lacking in children, now.. it seems we are growing into a family place. This is WONDERFUL.

Thanks sooo much.

~Storm Chaser