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DaNcInG_WiNd
July 6th, 2005, 08:19 AM
I FEEL LIKE I AM LOSING MY DAMN MIND. EVERYTHING I HAVE BEEN WORKING MY ASS OFF FOR IS FALLING APART.I HAVEN'T SEEN MY DIVORCE SETTLEMENT YET, MY DAUGHTER AND I ARE SOON GOING TO BE WITHOUT A PLACE TO LIVE, I CAN'T SEE MY SON, I CAN'T FIND A JOB, I AM ON THE VERGE OF LOSING MY DAUGHTER BECAUSE I CAN'T MAKE ENDS MEET AND GET THINGS TOGETHER. AND THE WAY THINGS LOOK, STARMAN AND I MAY NEVER GET TO BE TOGETHER NOW. EVEN IF I DID HAVE A PLACE TO LIVE OF MY OWN AND A STEADY JOB NOW AND I HAVE A LIVE IN SO THEN IT COULD COST ME MY DAUGHTER. I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY THAT IS SO WRONG. BUT THE AUTHORITIES SEE IT AS SUCH AND CAN TAKE HER AWAY FOR THAT. I HAVE HIT ROCK BOTTOM AND FEEL LIKE THERE IS NOWHERE LEFT TO GO. THINGS HAVE BECOME SO BAD THAT I HAVE EVEN BEEN QUESTIONING MY BELIEFS LATELY. THAT IS THE LAST THING I WANT TO DO BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE IT IS WHERE I AM MEANT TO BE SPIRITUALLY. I HAVEN'T STOPPED CRYING ALL NIGHT AND HAVE DEVELOPED A SERIOUS MIGRAINE. I FEEL LIKE THIS IS MY LAST CHANCE COMING HERE TO POST THIS. PLEASE IF ANYONE CAN SEND ANY ENERGY OR PRAYERS THEY WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED. :sadeyes:
sorry bout caps...button got stuck...
WitchOfEndor
July 6th, 2005, 08:28 AM
I am sorry you are having such a hard time, lots of energy sent your way. I'll be praying that things get better for you & you soon have some serenity in your life.
Brightest of Blessings to you & your family.
StarMan
July 6th, 2005, 08:51 AM
Hi hon.
sending energy your way.
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I love dancingwind with my heart and soul. When she told me that she could loose her daughter because of me I could not rest or sleep for that matter. I had a bad gut feeling about what my babe told me, that something did not ad up. I'm in Europe and there's not much I can do, but using the web I can, and I found a DCFS lawyer and called. I did'nt give up any names not even my own. Just told what Dancingwind is going thru. According to Department of children & Family services lawyer, she told me that they cannot and will never take away someones kid because the mother has a man/ boyfriend in her life. It will only happen if the man is abusing, neglecting or harming the child. That's not the case in this matter. I'm typing this so if anyone els gets the same message as Dancingwind it's not right. You can't loose your child because you love someone and don't want to be alone in your life.
Aleannah
July 6th, 2005, 12:36 PM
sending positive energy your way :hugz:
Nighthawk
July 6th, 2005, 01:01 PM
I am hoping things work out for y'all
AutumnWitchie
July 6th, 2005, 02:07 PM
Energy being sent your way, Dancing Wind.
BlackMagicalCat
July 6th, 2005, 10:58 PM
Bless your heart,I have been through hard times as well,and God has always been faithfull to stand by me,I pray you will recieve help from heaven and when you see no way,I pray God will make one for you,bless you and your friend.
Here is a song that has helped me a lot.
God can make a way,when thier seems to be no way,he works in ways we cannot see,he will make a way for me,he will be my guide,hold me closely to his side,with love and strength for each new day,he will make a way,he will make a way.
I posted a prayer for you in my prayer space if it helps you any. :smile:
Shadowsong
July 6th, 2005, 11:03 PM
Gods bless you, I hope everything works out all right.
MerryBe
July 6th, 2005, 11:23 PM
I FEEL LIKE I AM LOSING MY DAMN MIND. EVERYTHING I HAVE BEEN WORKING MY ASS OFF FOR IS FALLING APART.I HAVEN'T SEEN MY DIVORCE SETTLEMENT YET, MY DAUGHTER AND I ARE SOON GOING TO BE WITHOUT A PLACE TO LIVE, I CAN'T SEE MY SON, I CAN'T FIND A JOB, I AM ON THE VERGE OF LOSING MY DAUGHTER BECAUSE I CAN'T MAKE ENDS MEET AND GET THINGS TOGETHER. AND THE WAY THINGS LOOK, STARMAN AND I MAY NEVER GET TO BE TOGETHER NOW. EVEN IF I DID HAVE A PLACE TO LIVE OF MY OWN AND A STEADY JOB NOW AND I HAVE A LIVE IN SO THEN IT COULD COST ME MY DAUGHTER. I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY THAT IS SO WRONG. BUT THE AUTHORITIES SEE IT AS SUCH AND CAN TAKE HER AWAY FOR THAT. I HAVE HIT ROCK BOTTOM AND FEEL LIKE THERE IS NOWHERE LEFT TO GO. THINGS HAVE BECOME SO BAD THAT I HAVE EVEN BEEN QUESTIONING MY BELIEFS LATELY. THAT IS THE LAST THING I WANT TO DO BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE IT IS WHERE I AM MEANT TO BE SPIRITUALLY. I HAVEN'T STOPPED CRYING ALL NIGHT AND HAVE DEVELOPED A SERIOUS MIGRAINE. I FEEL LIKE THIS IS MY LAST CHANCE COMING HERE TO POST THIS. PLEASE IF ANYONE CAN SEND ANY ENERGY OR PRAYERS THEY WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED. :sadeyes:
sorry bout caps...button got stuck...
Energy and Prayers headed your way.
I am so sorry you are having such a rough time of it. You sound so overwhelmed, take some time to rest your weary head.
I also hope you are getting decent information on the laws where you live.
Sometimes in some places a Significant Other living with you AFTER the divorce is finalized will not hurt you. It all depends on where you live.
The most I can say right now is to take one step at a time, babysteps if need be.
If you need some help or a shoulder, I am here.
May you have all that you need to get through your plight.
Warmist Wishes and Brightest Blessings,
Merry
Willow Rosette
July 6th, 2005, 11:52 PM
Im so sorry for the pain you are going through hun. I will light a candel and send energy your way that you may find a path to lead you in the dirrection you are meant to go. Blessings to You, your children, and your sweetheart.
QUEEN OF THE DAMNED
July 7th, 2005, 12:00 AM
Definately sending positive energy your way sweetheart. I'm so sorry about your predicamint, I know it's hard, but keep up your hopes and faith that you will keep your daughter. :hugz:
Much love and best wishes
jetzige
July 7th, 2005, 12:50 AM
I'm so sorry for what you are going through. About two years ago I was in a similar place. I made it through some very dark times. I think you will too.
I'm sending energy your way right now.
MorganLeFey_83
July 7th, 2005, 12:53 AM
:chattin: Things seem to go up and down don't they? I know how you feel! But there is a good side to this. Good and bad are naturally balanced. It's up to you to seek out the good. Best of luck to you! :broomride
Jenne
July 7th, 2005, 12:59 AM
:hugz: and energies...
Philosophia
July 7th, 2005, 02:07 AM
I am so sorry to hear about the troubles you are having! ((hugs)) I will light a candle for you and send energies straight away.
:hugz:
Teresa
July 7th, 2005, 10:11 AM
Praying for You and dressing a candle! :hugz: Sometimes we endure things that are like the fire of a kiln for us which makes us even stronger and more beautiful afterwards! Hang in there it will get better.
Ishtara
July 7th, 2005, 03:37 PM
:hugz:
You will be in my prayers. Sending lots of positive energy your way.
LadyAutumnCat
July 7th, 2005, 05:53 PM
:hugz:
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