Well both my partner and I have never liked unsolicited hitting on. Sorry but if your not invited, dont try to invite yourself!
So since we both have attitudes in this area we always tell each about any incidents simply because we both jerk the person around in some negative off beat or rude way and love sharing the reactions we get. Yes our goal is to piss off or embarrass the other person. Respect should always be practiced and hitting on someone to us is disrespectful.
Its also game playing and we hate that stuff. High school is over!