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Old December 12th, 2009, 08:31 PM
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ok so heres my problem.............im married, two kids with a third on the way, i love my wife and family and would never dream of leaving them..........but for a very long time ive wanted to be with a man and i kind of know why but thats a long story, neways i have never cheated on me wife with EITHER sex though i know she doesnt believe me wholely my fault, but that feeling is still with me ive never been with a guy but have the desire to do so dont know what to say or do about it i hate that im hurting my wife and feel like im losing my family but i cant change how i feel as i said i love my wife and kids with all my heart and would rather die then lose any of them but i cant shake this desire, HELP...........alright its there and i know im bout to be torn apart like piranhas on a staek so...have at it
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Old December 12th, 2009, 08:41 PM
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I will report any-one that "tears you apart" over this post.

MW has a LBGT support thread. I suggest you start there.
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Old December 12th, 2009, 08:48 PM
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ok

where cant find it
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1.my companions are sea, land and sky.
2.my shield is reverence for life.
3.my armour is tranqulity and insight.
4.my weapons are fortitude and awareness.
this is the dragonic code. this is what i live by.
this is my life. in essence i am a knight of the dragonic code.



i used to be schitzo but we're all beter now
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Old December 12th, 2009, 08:49 PM
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Here's the support thread, dragonsfollower:
http://mysticwicks.com/showthread.php?t=112565

In the meantime, I'm going to move your thread here to Helping Hands & Hugs.
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Old December 12th, 2009, 08:53 PM
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found it thanks
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1.my companions are sea, land and sky.
2.my shield is reverence for life.
3.my armour is tranqulity and insight.
4.my weapons are fortitude and awareness.
this is the dragonic code. this is what i live by.
this is my life. in essence i am a knight of the dragonic code.



i used to be schitzo but we're all beter now
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Old December 12th, 2009, 10:25 PM
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I am polyamorous. One of the men in my life is like you - he needs a man AND a woman to be happy. It's like a balance, it is simply something he needed in life. Fortunately, he found us, and it ceased to be an issue.

My sweet "D" would have the very same problem that you have, if it had been just he and I. He loves me endlessly, would be happy with me, but would still have that longing for a male partner as well. (We've talked about these things before, which is why I feel comfortable sharing our situation with you.)

Is there *any* chance your wife would be interested in polyamory? Either way, you two really need to have a long, deep talk...

And big for you. You're not in an easy situation.
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